Pride Month: Contradiction

I posted this cartoon on the meme website 9gag where it received over 1,200 likes and counting. But I also got some pushback. 

The main criticism was that I was making a “straw man“ argument by conflating sexual attraction with sexual identity. Attraction and identity are two completely different things, they argued, therefore it is unfair for me to compare them.

I completely agree that sexual identity (gay or straight) is not the same as gender identity (male or female). However, both fall under the umbrella of human sexuality, which lately has become a muddled mess. Is sexuality biological, emotional, a social construct, or some combination of all three? If an adolescent feels a brief flash of same-sex attraction, are they gay? If a man has a lot of feminine personality traits, is he really trans? Is sexuality hard-wired or can it fluxuate and change? Answers from the LGBTQ movement are all over the map. 

Many gay people will tell you they were just born that way. But PBS quoted a study from the journal Science finding conclusively that there is no "gay gene" and that "there are environmental causes of sexual orientation."

Are people born trans? Boston Children's Hospital claimed kids know they are trans "from the womb". But Planned Parenthood says "Everyone's gender identity is up to them to define." 

Do you occasionally feel a brief, momentary attraction to someone of the same sex? You might be gay. Or not. Psychology Today says that sexual orientation can be fluid and changing. Unless you try to change someone's sexual orientation in the direction of "straight". That's "conversion therapy" and is banned in several states (even if it's what the person wants).

Are you confused about whether you are gay or trans, both or neither? The New York Times says you should explore everything until you figure it out. "When seeking a partner, 'male or female is pretty immaterial'...gender-queer or gender-fluid individuals may have an unfixed gender identity...When you settle on one thing, you have formed a barrier for yourself...The big question is: 'Am I happy?'".

In other words, it's all subjective. Attempts to organize modern ideas about sexuality into something clear and coherent is nearly impossible. It's gotten so bad that we now have a Justice on the Supreme Court who can't define what a "woman" is. So yes, I think it's fair to make cartoons pointing out the contradictions in the LGBTQ movement. It is built on shifting sand.

Personally I don't believe anyone "chooses" to be gay. As a Christian, I believe the Bible's teaching that we are born fallen, that is, broken by sin. We ALL have natural desires that we never asked for but nonetheless are sinful (greed, hatred, desire to lie, jealousy, pride, addiction, etc.) Each person may have their own unique demons to fight but just because an urge is natural or powerful does not automatically make it something you must follow. I reject the notion that "If I feel a strong desire, it must be good and therefore I must conform to it." That type of thinking can justify everything from overeating to pedophilia.

I also believe in a loving God who sent his Son Jesus to die on the cross for our sins. He stands with open arms ready to forgive and heal ANYONE who comes to him in humility and faith, no matter what has happened in their sexual past.

God created us a sexual beings, and His design for expressing our sexuality is best. Sex is a beautiful and sacred gift, meant exclusively for a man and woman in an intimate, faithful marriage commitment. Like fire, if kept in the fireplace it can be cozy and comforting and warm the house. If taken out of the fireplace, it can burn everything down.


Memorial Day: Onward Christian Soldiers

The Bible often compares the Christian life to a spiritual battle. Battle within (resisting sin) and without (conflict with evil in the world).

There is a popular notion that Christians must always be friendly and tame, but that is not exactly what the Bible teaches. The New Testament tells us to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:9), but also soldiers of Christ (2 Timothy 2:3). We are to be gentle (Galatians 5:23) but also bold (2 Corinthians 3:12). We are to love our enemies (Matthew 5:43-48) yet hate what is evil (Romans 12:9; Proverbs 8:13; Psalm 97:10). Paul wrote in 1 Timothy 6:11, “pursue godliness, love, and gentleness”, and then in the very next verse he says “fight the good fight”.

Also the mild, soft Jesus many people believe in is not the Jesus of the Bible. Yes he was full of IMMENSE love and forgiveness, but he was also righteous and bold. As such he sometimes offended people (Matthew 13:57; 15:12-14). He called out evil and was hated for it (John 7:7; 15:23-24). Jesus said his followers would likewise be hated (John 15:18; Luke 6:22-23). Christ publicly insulted the religious leaders of his day (Matthew 23:1-36). Jesus took a whip into the Temple courtyard and flipped over the tables of the moneychangers (John 2:13-17). He preached often about judgment and Hell, warning that most people will be damned (Matthew 7:13-14;21-23; Luke 13:24-28). Twice the crowds tried to stone Jesus (John 8:59; 10:31-33). Another time a crowd got so angry they tried to throw him off of a cliff (Luke 4:28-30). Some thought he was demon-possessed (John 7:20; Mark 3:22; Matthew 12:25) or insane (John 10:20; Mark 3:21). His ministry made enemies, enemies who ultimately had him crucified.

Obviously Christians should never be jerks or use violence to advance the Gospel. “The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world”….“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (2 Corinthians 10:4; Romans 12:21). But neither should we smile at lies or shrug at evil in order to be “nice” and “keep the peace”. Jesus warned against seeking popular approval (Luke 6:26) and the Bible says cowardice is a damnable sin (Revelation 21:8).

Loving your neighbor means there is a time to take a stand, to speak up, to protect our families and culture. To fight the good fight. To pay a price for a greater good. I don’t have all the answers. My own natural tendency is to be a people-pleaser. So I am seeking to learn and grow in my understanding of when to engage in godly conflict, and what that conflict should look like.

I am certain that as Christians we know the truth. We have seen the light. We are born anew. We have the message of hope for the lost. We have the Holy Spirit of Almighty God pulsing through our hearts. The King of the universe hears our prayers. As the grenades of sin and chaos explode all around us, surely God expects more from us than smiles and prayer emoji’s.

World War II was perhaps the ultimate conflict. No one ever wants war. War is horrific. But with Memorial Day approaching I think most people would agree WWII was necessary, and a fight where the good guys won. Since we are called to be soldiers of Christ (2 Timothy 2:3-4; Ephesians 6:10-18; Philippians 2:25) maybe WWII works as a sort of analogy for the spiritual battles every Christian must fight?

I found some public domain photos from that heroic page in history and paired them with Scripture to help me ponder the call toward struggle, bravery, and sacrifice. I don’t want to promote violence, but I do want to challenge my own tendency (and perhaps the tendency of many Christians) to be docile and play it safe.

As cultural battles rage around us and spiritual struggles rage within us, may God help us to be wise, loving, brave Christians ready to lay it all down to advance the hope and holiness of the Gospel.

I’ve printed out a few of these images and framed them on my studio wall, to inspire me to be stronger and more courageous in my own Christian life:

If you’d like to do the same, for a low cost I’ve put together a WWII bundle of all 15 images you can download and print at home as 8×10’s. Or, you can order individual prints (framed or unframed) from my studio store and I will run them off my inkjet printer onto glossy photo paper and mail them to you. (Your purchases help support my work.)

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Children’s Catechism

Recently Generations, a Christian ministry and publisher, hired me to illustrate a catechism for young children. It’s now available to order through their store:

Here’s a few of the images I created for them:

New! Video Webcomics

I’ve started transforming a few of my Narrow Road Comics into video shorts for play on TikTok and YouTube. I’m not doing animation, just simple pans and cuts. And not every idea will work as a video, mostly the ones that have little or no text. But feel free to subscribe and share:

“The Great Exchange” Animated

This is so cool! A professional animator named Jezreel Carlos took one of my most popular webcomics and made an animated version. The audio is AI generated but he animated the visuals himself, and did a great job!

Feel free to share this around.

Follow Jezreel on LinkedIn.

Should Christians Always Be Nice?

Christians are supposed to be like Jesus. That means being nice, being kind, and seeking peace at all costs, right?

Actually, no. Not according to Pastor Doug Wilson. I stumbled upon this talk where he says sometimes being like Jesus means saying hard things people don’t want to hear. It means conflict. It means being hated. Of course we should never pick fights or rock the boat just because, but neither must we be always soft and gentle and say “Aw shucks” with our hands in our pockets. There are times when being tame can be just as wrong-headed and un-Christlike as is being a jerk.

Yes of course it is important to be kind and gentle. Love does not mean being a bully. But there are also times when the most loving thing to do is to suit up and slay the dragon.

Wilson is thoughtful, witty, and quotes a lot of Scripture. This talk is an easy listen and it gave me a lot to chew on.

Are Christians Arrogant?

I’ve been reading, “A Serrated Edge” by Doug Wilson. It’s a Christian defense of satire, and a good read. I’m only three chapters in but Wilson made a really good point that stuck with me.

He points out that too many Christians stay silent on a host of topics for fear of being called “arrogant”. The problem is that Christians and secular people often aren’t even using the same definition of the word. The meaning of the “arrogant” slur can be very different depending on who is tossing it around.

To a biblical Christian, God is our supreme authority and therefore we must submit our lives to what he has revealed to us in the Bible. To follow God‘s commands is humility. To reject God’s authority is arrogance.

To a secular person, God is unknowable (if he even exists at all). The only thing we can know for sure is our personal experience and feelings. Therefore moral uncertainty is a sign of humility. Anyone who presumes to know what God thinks is “arrogant“.

To one side it is arrogant to reject God. To the other side it is arrogant to acknowledge God.

When Christians stay silent for fear of being called “arrogant“, we have already lost because we have essentially conceded to the secular view of arrogance is the correct one. That’s a problem.

So far it’s a fascinating and thoughtful read. A Serrated Edge is available from Amazon here.